Finding Your People — How the Right Vendors Change Everything
There’s so much advice out there when it comes to planning your wedding: create a vision board, book your venue early, stick to your budget. But one piece of advice that’s often overlooked—yet completely game-changing—is this:
Find your people.
Not just vendors who are talented (though that matters), but ones who make you feel seen, heard, and genuinely supported. Because when you surround yourself with the right team, wedding planning feels less overwhelming—and way more fun.
Your Vendors Set the Tone
You’ll spend months planning your big day, and on the day itself, your vendors are the ones who are by your side. From your venue coordinator and bartender to your caterer and photographer, your team plays a huge role in how your day unfolds—and how you feel while it’s happening.
That’s why it’s not just about hiring someone with a good reputation or a trendy service. It’s about how they make you feel:
Are they approachable and responsive?
Do they listen to your ideas?
Are they helpful, even when you change your mind?
Do they feel like your kind of people?
If the answer is yes—you’ve found something special.
From Vendor to Partner (and Maybe Even Friend)
At Top Shelf Cuisine & Cocktails, we know that the best weddings happen when there’s real connection and trust between the couple and their vendor team.
We’ve had brides who weren’t sure what they wanted for their signature drink. They changed their minds (more than once). And that’s okay—we were there for every step, offering guidance, support, and ideas that aligned with their vision.
“I changed my mind with drinks and it was your team that helped pick the Pink Bikini! And it was a fan FAVE.”
That’s what we love to hear—because it means we did more than just serve drinks. We made her feel confident, excited, and cared for.
Stress Less, Enjoy More
Here’s what most couples learn during the planning process: it’s not just about the pretty things—it’s about the people behind them.
When you work with vendors who truly care, your entire experience changes:
You trust the process.
You feel heard and supported.
You can actually enjoy your wedding day.
Choosing people you genuinely connect with makes everything smoother—from the first meeting to the final toast.
Advice from a Bride Who Lived It
“Choose drinks that YOU love and a vendor that helps bring your vision to life. That’s exactly what Top Shelf did for us.”
Whether it’s helping finalize cocktail menus, matching the vibe of your celebration, or dancing behind the bar with the bride, our team believes in being more than just a vendor—we’re your people.
Final Thoughts: Connection Over Perfection
So yes, check out portfolios. Ask about pricing. Read reviews. But above all—pay attention to how they make you feel.
Do they get your vision?
Are they kind and easy to talk to?
Do you trust them to take care of the details?
Those are the vendors worth having in your corner. Because your wedding isn’t just a one-day event—it’s a journey. And that journey is so much better with the right people beside you.
Looking for Your People?
At Top Shelf Cuisine & Cocktails, we do more than serve food and pour drinks. We collaborate, we listen, and we help bring your vision to life—through flavor, energy, and unforgettable service.
Book your consultation today and let’s create something beautiful together.
